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Experiencing Tantric Energy First Hand
Embed from Getty Images — Padmasambhava – Ascend with conduct, descend with the view Tantra is all about energy. It is usually associated with sex and this isn’t entirely unfair since the most...
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Who Initiates Sex?
Embed from Getty Images — “I pretty much always have to initiate sex,” My buddy told me. I sensed a little resentment and asked him about it. He said it wasn’t a big deal, but conceded that he had a...
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How Do You Open Your Relationship to Sexual Possibility?
Embed from Getty Images — In my work coaching men surrounding their sexuality I often hear, “I wish my partner were open to trying X.” X can be just about anything, from dominance/submission to Tantra...
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Guys, We Were Never Taught How to Touch a Woman [Video]
— Ask almost any women, and they will say it is so. Guys, it’s not your fault. Most of us were never taught the sacred art of making love, also know as Tantra or Sacred Sexuality. This short 6:30...
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When Sex Is Not Enough
— Tantra is not love. I think we can get caught up in thinking breath and eye gazing and touch with presence equates to a deep level of love. Science tells us that repeating these actions (specifically...
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Tantra Punk Turns Fighters Into Lovers
Ben Lawson, musician and activist, teaches empowerment through sacred sexuality. ––– The universe itself was danced into existence. According to tantric cosmogony, Shiva (masculine energy) and Shakti...
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The Next Layer: Spiritual Sex
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about spiritual sex, sexual spirituality, what that actually is and how we express and experience it. The first aspect of this, of what distinguishes a spiritual sexual...
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We Need To Design Better Sex Education for Kids
— As the school year comes to a close and my kids are headed off to enjoy their Summer, it is also the time of year for…Sex Education! Honestly, I do not recall it happening this late in the school...
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A Celebration of Men
Today I celebrate a group of men, and I’d love to say that are representative of men in South Africa. I’m extremely optimistic in general, and in this instance I have to say that I have my doubts, and...
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The Beautiful Dilemma
Modern relationships are going through a season of re-thinking. Whether you’re aware of it or not, this process of re-defining and re-imagining relationships have been going on for some time. As...
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Why So Many Guys Are Confused About Sex
Many guys are confused about sex, and many guys are confused about women. Many guys have mother, father, and religious issues that further obscure the picture, and given our relatively conservative...
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Become a Better Lover With Tantra
Tantra is a powerful and ancient practice that brings consciousness to your life as a whole as well as your sex life. Tantric teachings help you become a better person and a better lover. You can learn...
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The World’s Most Controversial Spiritual Leader Taught Me About Love
What does this man remind you of? The controversies surrounding him? His wisdom? His 700 or so discourses that have been converted to books? The sex guru? The professor? The philosopher? Ten years...
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Wealth and Spiritual Growth. Are They Connected?
Why are we trapped in to misperceptions about money, its role in our wellbeing and our ability (or worthiness) to have enough of it? “Trees don’t sell apples”. This saying reminds us that the...
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You Want Healthy Boundaries? They Are Important and This Is Why
Boundaries are invisible limits and rules we choose to follow in our relationships. Unlike popular misconception, boundaries don’t set people apart, they help people build healthy relationships...
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This De-Armouring Tantric Practice Will Help You in So Many Ways
De-armoring is a term that has evolved following the work of the psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich, who brought the body into psychology. His approach to therapy included interpretation of resistance, as...
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Loving an Emotionally Unavailable Person
Some people ask a similar question from different points of view: Why is it that I don’t care about the person who is nice to me and tries to give me everything? Or, why am I desperately in love with...
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Overcoming Men’s Collective Fear of Pleasure – Cam Fraser
Because pleasure is so enjoyable, it can be surprising to know that many people are afraid of, or have some kind of resistance to, pleasure. Overcoming the blocks to experiencing pleasure is something...
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Dear Mr. Can I Get Addicted to Energy
You wrote me this morning asking if you could become addicted to this surge of kundalini energy that has awakened inside of you through integration sessions, and even though you are feeling so good,...
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Love’s Sacred Mirror…A Debate Topic in Our World Today
Emotional intelligence something we all need a little work around for sure. But what is it? Why is it important? Emotional intelligence serves as a guiding light, illuminating the path towards deeper...
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